My son has been bitten by the golf bug and I am so glad. I enjoy watching him play sports and coached hockey, baseball, and lacrosse teams, but golfing together is a much more rewarding experience. Let me tell you why.
- We get to talk to each other: lives have become so hectic; conversations and life lesson time seems to disappear. I am fortunate to eat dinner with my family each night, however with three children, it is tough to get equal billing. While I teach the game of golf, we also discuss the game of Life.
- Gatorade not suds: playing with my friends is about the great courses we play as well as the conversation, but let's face it, who doesn't enjoy a few adult beverages too.
- Honesty: You don't tell the scorekeeper you shot a 5 when you swung the club 8 times. Your children notice how you play; teach them the right way (a true life lesson here).
- Temper, temper: As much as I enjoy playing, golf can be a very frustrating game. Show your son or daughter that you are a gentleman or lady and can win with grace or lose with honor.
- Dress for Success: No matter a public or private course, I wear a collared and a nice pair of shorts or pants. If your child wants to play, he will be willing to dress the part.
- Shake Hands: After the last member of the group sinks the final put, everyone looks each other in the eye and shakes hands.
- You will eventually see your child do something like this and be torn between pride and jealousy.
Get out there and have some fun!
I look forward to your comments.
Best,
Toby
